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Olugbemi. Adeyinka Ogunleye
1 week ago
Overview
9 Signs That Divorce Is On The Way
1. No communication
What a pity that you can’t read someone’s mind. It would’ve made things so much easier for the couple who don’t talk that much. The lack of communication can be seen as a lack of interest and feelings.
2. Lying to your partner
Lying to your husband or wife seems like living a double life and you’re playing with fire...Also, you don’t only lie to your partner, but you can lie to yourself as well.
3. Emotional distance
There was a quote saying that women tend to break up emotionally before telling their partners that they don’t want that relationship anymore. I think this is the truth for both females and males. If you want to save your relationship, it’s best to try and speak up.
4. No physical connection
Sex is important, but there isn’t a one-size-fits-all when it comes to intimacy between partners. Sex can be seen as the glue that holds together the marriage. If one of the partners, or even both of them, doesn’t feel the need to be intimate, it means that something is off.
5. Expressing contempt
When a couple is contemptuous of each other and also disrespectful, it’s a clear sign that their marriage is almost over. There’s nothing worse than treating your partner badly, after saying yes at the altar.
6. Awkward silence
You know that moment when you had a big fight with one of your closest friends and suddenly, you feel like this caused a tear in your relationship? When you and your partner had so many arguments, you might feel like you have no idea what to say anymore, so you just want to keep it quiet. There’s nothing good with that...
7. You don’t care about your partner’s day
If you and your partner have different jobs and you only see each other at the end of the day...if you and your partner don’t talk to each other when you get home, don’t ask about how each other’s day was, don’t communicate and behave like you are simply roommates, not two married people, then it’s clear that something is off.
8. You might feel like you are losing your best friend
Although it’s already pretty self-explanatory, this is actually the result of several fights, arguments, lack of communication, bad feelings and all sort of things. If you and your partner had some problems that you didn’t solve, these issues tend to accumulate and to make the relationship break little by little until partners feel like they are not best friends anymore...
9. When you are thinking about the future, you don’t see your partner in it
Maybe you had this in your mind for quite a while, but you didn’t want to believe it.
Credit: Psychology Diary
